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I am struggling to live on disability. I'm only getting $95/month while I wait on SSI to make a decision. Please, any help is appreciated. And thank you.

$283 will get me to the end of next month.

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Ich bin übrigens nicht queer geworden, weil ich mich im vergangenen Jahr intensiv mit der Thematik auseinander gesetzt habe. Sondern weil ich schon immer queer war und diese Seite an mir erst durch diese Auseinandersetzung vollumfassend akzeptiert habe.

Warum habe ich das nicht schon vorher getan? Weil unsere patriarchalische Gesellschaft queeres Gedankengut zum großen Teil unterdrückt und ich mich gezwungen fühlte, in binäre Gendernormen zu passen.

The other day I was part of a panel, and introduced myself with "they" pronouns.

I was also wearing a t-shirt that says "one of them".

Afterwards two people who were in the audience came up to speak to me. Each of them, seperatly, thanked me (very intensely!) for my interesting talk and then hung around for a bit, kind of awkwardly before leaving.

I don't know if I was imagining it but I wonder if they wanted to talk to me about gender identity / being nonbinary but didn't know how?

Me being totally clueless how to talk to people, didn't help 😐

Almost every year, we go to the Memorial Day Parade in the town where my wife grew up. I absolutely love my wife's family. They welcomed me when I was the shy, nerdy, anxious boyfriend, and love me still as the loud #nonbinary partner.

My brother-in-law got a "new" truck this year. He lives on the parade route, so our kids and his sat in the truck to watch.

When I saw the flag he had flying on it I was so moved. Context: afaik, he and his wife and kids are straight.