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Emeritus Prof Christopher May<p>Despite some high profile successes in the prosecution of partners for coercive control, it appears (once again) many police forces are not getting it right on the ground - prosecuting the victims of conceive control for the actions they have bene forced into, rather than going after the perpetrators.</p><p>I'd like to say this is surprising, but its all too grimly predictable!</p><p><a href="https://zirk.us/tags/women" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>women</span></a> <a href="https://zirk.us/tags/CoerciveControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CoerciveControl</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/jul/27/domestic-abuse-survivors-coercive-control-criminalised-research-finds" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">theguardian.com/society/2025/j</span><span class="invisible">ul/27/domestic-abuse-survivors-coercive-control-criminalised-research-finds</span></a></p>
quackademic<p>The lives of unpaid carers are exhausting &amp; their work deserves Huge respect. Watching a loved one decline like this is endless grief.</p><p>But…. </p><p>The tone of this piece &amp; others like it is another version of the myth of the ‘good woman’ (even tho some carers are men) - the idea that the ‘right’ way to think about dementia is that the person suffering is a paragon &amp; the adoring carer will sacrifice their own health &amp; well being for as long as it takes.</p><p>I wonder whose voices are silenced by this.</p><p>What about the people who are bound by circumstance caring for someone who for years has been their abuser? People entrapped in a relationship of coercive control learn they cannot trust their own feelings or judgment, that their worth lies only in serving their abuser &amp; that they are not entitled to be safe. The idea of standing up to a partner who does not want to go into care is unthinkable. Facing their anger is too frightening.</p><p>The framing used in pieces like this is another rope binding such people into their learned certainty that ‘if I wasn’t such a failure as a person I could do this’. Looking from this place, for some the only escape that feels possible is their own death.</p><p>For all the respect I offer to carers like those in this article, it is the experience of people whose voices are made inadmissible by the framing used here, that breaks my heart 💔</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/AgedCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AgedCare</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/Dementia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Dementia</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/CoerciveControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CoerciveControl</span></a> </p><p>‘I could never, ever not care for her’: how do carers know when to stop caring for those they love? <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/may/03/i-could-never-ever-not-care-for-her-how-do-carers-know-when-to-stop-caring-for-those-they-love?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">theguardian.com/society/2025/m</span><span class="invisible">ay/03/i-could-never-ever-not-care-for-her-how-do-carers-know-when-to-stop-caring-for-those-they-love?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other</span></a></p>
🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄)<p><a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/CW" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CW</span></a>: talk of abuse, control, and food.</p><p>This morning at breakfast my partner apologized for leaving the heel* of the bread loaf for me, and I was reminded of how much my ex used to control my eating.</p><p>*there was another loaf thawing, so I could have easily eaten that instead of the heel.</p><p>I used to get a "talking-to" for:<br>- eating the last of anything my ex might want.<br>- not eating the last of anything my ex didn't want.<br>- asking for things I wanted (like Swiss cheese**).<br>- cooking something for myself that they liked.<br>- cooking something for myself they didn't like.<br>- not cooking things just the way they liked.<br>- eating "too much".<br>- being "too thin".</p><p>**earlier in my relationship with my current partner, while we were at the grocery store, they asked if there was any cheese I wanted. I said "I like Swiss" as I broke down crying, following up with "but I'm not really allowed to get it".</p><p>My current partner is amazing, and my ex is my ex for a lot of good reasons, and I'm happy-sad crying a bit this morning, and I just want anyone who this list resonates with to know they aren't alone—that's abuse, plain and simple—and you can get out too.</p><p>Here's some info on coercive control (just ignore the ad for BetterHelp, because fuck them):</p><p><a href="https://psychcentral.com/health/coercive-control" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">psychcentral.com/health/coerci</span><span class="invisible">ve-control</span></a></p><p><a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/Abuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Abuse</span></a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/AbuseSurvivors" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AbuseSurvivors</span></a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/CoerciveControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CoerciveControl</span></a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/EatingDisorders" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>EatingDisorders</span></a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/MentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MentalHealth</span></a></p>
quackademic<p><a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/CoerciveControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CoerciveControl</span></a> is a useful concept for making visible the abuses of <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/power" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>power</span></a> that can occur in hierarchical relationships. </p><p>We now see them more easily in <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/families" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>families</span></a>, <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/cults" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>cults</span></a> &amp; other institutions. Perhaps our next step is to see how people raised in relations of hierarchy learn that the only way to be safe is to either become the biggest <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/bully" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>bully</span></a> in the room or to appease that bully. </p><p>So many of the people who achieve power in our <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/political" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>political</span></a> &amp; other institutions appear to operate like this. While bullying behaviour is seen as normal, or even valorised as a characteristic of alpha masculinity, our cultural framing rules (what we’re allowed to say) &amp; feeling rules (what we’re allowed to feel) obscure it from view. The consequences of a bully’s actions are seen as resulting from the personal failings of those who are harmed. Naming this dynamic becomes a dangerous act.</p><p>Sound familiar?</p><p>What if our culture‘s assumed hierarchy of human value is mistaken? What if this way of making sense of the world harms us more than it protects? What if we are all connected &amp; our wellbeing depends on the wellbeing of others?</p><p>When bullies win, everyone loses. I say yay to every way we make this visible.</p><p><a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-04-12/coercive-control-religion-geelong-revival-centre/105146234?utm_source=abc_news_app&amp;utm_medium=content_shared&amp;utm_campaign=abc_news_app&amp;utm_content=other" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">abc.net.au/news/2025-04-12/coe</span><span class="invisible">rcive-control-religion-geelong-revival-centre/105146234?utm_source=abc_news_app&amp;utm_medium=content_shared&amp;utm_campaign=abc_news_app&amp;utm_content=other</span></a></p>
quackademic<p>This is simple bully tactics. Lead with ‘I have power now &amp; I can hurt you’. Follow with ‘if you are nice to me I’ll only hurt you a bit. Anyone who resists with be punished’. Everyone is cowed &amp; falls in line. There must always be a scapegoat to be an example to others, everyone knows that any day it could be them.</p><p>The dynamic is so familiar to anyone who experienced bullying in school. I wonder if this is how the sad man who is driving this was parented? He has clearly learned that being the one running the protection racket is the only way to be safe.</p><p>Our cultural acceptance &amp; normalising of <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/bullying" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>bullying</span></a> &amp; <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/CoerciveControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CoerciveControl</span></a> in families, schools, relationships, business &amp; governance enables these abuses.</p><p><a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-04-09/china-announces-84-per-cent-tariff-on-us-goods/105158558?utm_source=abc_news_app&amp;utm_medium=content_shared&amp;utm_campaign=abc_news_app&amp;utm_content=other" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">abc.net.au/news/2025-04-09/chi</span><span class="invisible">na-announces-84-per-cent-tariff-on-us-goods/105158558?utm_source=abc_news_app&amp;utm_medium=content_shared&amp;utm_campaign=abc_news_app&amp;utm_content=other</span></a></p>
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A.Stringer<p>Whilst I'm glad <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/coercivecontrol" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>coercivecontrol</span></a> is being recognised for the <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/seriousharm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>seriousharm</span></a> it causes, this article is somewhat misleading (or the media have been briefed incorrectly). Any serious harm risks (including coercive control) are already shared with other agencies by the <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/Probationservice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Probationservice</span></a>, this is not something new. It is disingenuous to infer otherwise.</p><p>Coercive control to be put on par with other types of <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/domesticabuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>domesticabuse</span></a> in England and Wales | Domestic violence | The Guardian<br><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/feb/03/coercive-control-domestic-abuse-england-wales" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">theguardian.com/society/2025/f</span><span class="invisible">eb/03/coercive-control-domestic-abuse-england-wales</span></a></p>
Steve Dustcircle 🌹<p><a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Eldest" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Eldest</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Children" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Children</span></a> Suffer Under <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/CoerciveControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CoerciveControl</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/DomesticViolence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>DomesticViolence</span></a></p><p><a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Domesticabuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Domesticabuse</span></a> harms the <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/eldestchild" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>eldestchild</span></a> the most. Here's how to help. </p><p><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/invisible-chains/202501/eldest-children-suffer-under-coercive-control-domestic-violence" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/</span><span class="invisible">invisible-chains/202501/eldest-children-suffer-under-coercive-control-domestic-violence</span></a></p>
quackademic<p>This is what <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/CoerciveControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CoerciveControl</span></a> looks like. This is how perpetrators get away with it.</p><p>Alicia thinks she will be killed by her controlling ex. She says police won’t listen until ‘there’s a dead body’ <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2024/oct/10/alicia-thinks-she-will-be-killed-by-her-controlling-ex-she-says-police-wont-listen-until-theres-a-dead-body?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">theguardian.com/australia-news</span><span class="invisible">/2024/oct/10/alicia-thinks-she-will-be-killed-by-her-controlling-ex-she-says-police-wont-listen-until-theres-a-dead-body?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other</span></a></p>
Jason Lee<p>As someone who has never used Siri &amp; has had it turned off since it was first introduced, I find this weirdly creepy from Apple. </p><p>All of it is weird &amp; creepy, but adding a friend’s name as a sampler, even more fucking creepy. </p><p>It also shows me Apple doesn’t know my friend or I, or how we communicate. Which, may seem like a small positive, but it’s still creepy for trying. </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/Apple" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Apple</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/iOS18" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>iOS18</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/CreepyAsFuck" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CreepyAsFuck</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/AMess" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AMess</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/coercivecontrol" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>coercivecontrol</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/Stalking" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Stalking</span></a></p>
MidsouthMouth.OctaviaKeats<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://masto.ai/@venitamathias" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>venitamathias</span></a></span> <br>Wow.<br>Just--<br>Wow.</p><p>"show people how deeply slave-era policies are embedded in U.S. laws, in an effort to end the practice."when people say it's baked into the Republic....</p><p><a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/DeFacto" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>DeFacto</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/DeJure" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>DeJure</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/racism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>racism</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/CoerciveControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CoerciveControl</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/ideology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ideology</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/ExplicitBias" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ExplicitBias</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/ImplicitBias" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ImplicitBias</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/BlackFedi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>BlackFedi</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/Law" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Law</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/legal" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>legal</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/BlackMastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>BlackMastodon</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/SCOTUS" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SCOTUS</span></a></p>
quackademic<p>A man shot &amp; killed his ex partner’s friend &amp; her daughter bc he thought they were hiding the woman he was seeking to assault. She feared he would do this &amp; had warned her friend to hide. The police say he had no police record &amp; it’s not about domestic violence bc the women he killed were not his partner or family.</p><p>If this is not a man enacting <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/CoerciveControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CoerciveControl</span></a> as part of a campaign of <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/DomesticTerrorism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>DomesticTerrorism</span></a> (‘if you leave me you’ll make me do something stupid’ segues into ‘look what you made me do!), what is it? </p><p>Maybe another <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/GoodBlokeWhoSnapped" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>GoodBlokeWhoSnapped</span></a>. <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/YeahRight" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>YeahRight</span></a></p><p>ENOUGH 💔💔💔💔💔</p><p><a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2024-05-25/perth-mother-and-daughter-killed-in-double-murder-suicide/103892146?utm_source=abc_news_app&amp;utm_medium=content_shared&amp;utm_campaign=abc_news_app&amp;utm_content=other" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">abc.net.au/news/2024-05-25/per</span><span class="invisible">th-mother-and-daughter-killed-in-double-murder-suicide/103892146?utm_source=abc_news_app&amp;utm_medium=content_shared&amp;utm_campaign=abc_news_app&amp;utm_content=other</span></a></p>
Janice Selbie<p><a href="https://mas.to/tags/cult" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>cult</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/coercivecontrol" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>coercivecontrol</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/brainwashing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>brainwashing</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/indoctrination" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>indoctrination</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/psychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>psychology</span></a> Please read EXCLUSIVE: My life in a secretive religious sect and how I escaped from the whisky drinking multi-millionaire leader who claims he's the Holy Spirit, banned me from my family and said I was possessed by Satan <a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12560391/amp/My-life-secretive-religious-sect-escaped-whisky-drinking-multi-millionaire-leader-claims-hes-Holy-Spirit-banned-family-said-possessed-Satan.html?ito=smartnews" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1</span><span class="invisible">2560391/amp/My-life-secretive-religious-sect-escaped-whisky-drinking-multi-millionaire-leader-claims-hes-Holy-Spirit-banned-family-said-possessed-Satan.html?ito=smartnews</span></a></p>
Janice Selbie<p><a href="https://mas.to/tags/religioustrauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>religioustrauma</span></a> is like chewing gum: Sticky, messy, &amp; hard to remove. It is pervasive, impacting:<br>-thoughts<br>-speech<br>-appearance<br>-behaviour<br>-finances<br>-career<br>-relationships<br>-time<br>-energy<br>-mental health, and more.<br>Every religion has the potential to cause <a href="https://mas.to/tags/religioustraumasyndrome" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>religioustraumasyndrome</span></a>. <a href="https://mas.to/tags/psychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>psychology</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/cults" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>cults</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/coercivecontrol" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>coercivecontrol</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/abuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>abuse</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/exchristian" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>exchristian</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/atheist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>atheist</span></a></p>
Dr. Jack Brown :verified:<p>1 of 53/ THREAD: <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/BodyLanguage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>BodyLanguage</span></a> Analysis No. 4701: <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/StevenCrowder" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>StevenCrowder</span></a>'s abuse, manipulation, and <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/CoerciveControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CoerciveControl</span></a> of Hilary Crowder (Trigger Warning)<br> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/BodyLanguageExpert" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>BodyLanguageExpert</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/EmotionalIntelligence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>EmotionalIntelligence</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/NonverbalCommunication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NonverbalCommunication</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/BehaviorAnalysis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>BehaviorAnalysis</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/HilaryCrowder" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>HilaryCrowder</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/DARVO" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>DARVO</span></a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/tQfTaY_U3vc" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">youtu.be/tQfTaY_U3vc</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p>
Janice Selbie<p><a href="https://mas.to/tags/religions" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>religions</span></a> &amp; <a href="https://mas.to/tags/cults" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>cults</span></a> employ coercion to gain converts. Don’t miss this session from CORT2022 by <a href="https://mas.to/tags/coercivecontrol" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>coercivecontrol</span></a> expert Jennifer French <a href="https://youtu.be/dVbK9-mIeqU" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">youtu.be/dVbK9-mIeqU</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/ReligiousTrauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ReligiousTrauma</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/criticalthinking" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>criticalthinking</span></a></p>
Dr Tess Machling<p>There will be a nationwide UK Emergency Alert sent to all phones on Sunday 23rd April.</p><p>For many who have secret mobile phones - think domestic violence, abuse etc - this could be lethal.</p><p>Advice about what these alerts are and how to disable them can be found here: <br> <a href="https://excelattheoffice.com/2023/04/01/how-to-turn-off-uk-government-emergency-alerts/" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">excelattheoffice.com/2023/04/0</span><span class="invisible">1/how-to-turn-off-uk-government-emergency-alerts/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/EmergencyAlert" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>EmergencyAlert</span></a> <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/DomesticAbuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>DomesticAbuse</span></a> <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/DomesticViolence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>DomesticViolence</span></a> <a href="https://mastodonapp.uk/tags/CoerciveControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CoerciveControl</span></a></p>
Anna<p>I just don’t know what to do anymore. I’m scared of everything. I‘ve got so much trauma from doctors. I’m scared my GP will yell at me today and I won’t get a chance to get my treatment, scripts, go though very bad bloodwork and figure out what to or follow up referrals. I really need my IV. He’s dragging his heels. He yelled at me a few days after my mother had a stroke. That’s why I need to record this guy. How can I do this all in 10 minutes? The clinic won’t even let me email them to pass anything on in preparation. They denied it for 8 months but finally admitted it. I can’t go anywhere else because don’t have the energy. I’ve got no support. I ask one disability advocate to help they say they don’t do that and pass me on to another one that sends me back. Don’t know what to do. Hospital doesn’t help. What the hell do I do? I’m not asking a lot. I just want treatment and people who should be helping me to stop treating me like shit.</p><p><a href="https://aus.social/tags/SevereME" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SevereME</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/ChronicIlness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ChronicIlness</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/LongCovid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>LongCovid</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/PwME" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>PwME</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/MECFS" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MECFS</span></a> <br><a href="https://aus.social/tags/CoerciveControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CoerciveControl</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Abuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Abuse</span></a> coming from everywhere.<br><span class="h-card"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/mecfs" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>mecfs</span></a></span></p>
Janice Selbie<p><a href="https://mas.to/tags/cults" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>cults</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/CultHopping" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CultHopping</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/ReligiousTrauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ReligiousTrauma</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/coercivecontrol" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>coercivecontrol</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/BITEModel" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>BITEModel</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/CriticalThinking" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CriticalThinking</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/therapist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>therapist</span></a> If you grew up in a fundy family, you were primed to feel comfortable in high-demand, coercive groups/religions/cults/relationships. Before joining yet another group with the same dynamics, measure it against the BITE Model: <a href="https://freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-control/bite-model/?fbclid=IwAR1hVf12wVANS8FBNpHyuzUMFoINrzyZP3SySZk5GQ3qqEbdMADh1mtvj1U" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-co</span><span class="invisible">ntrol/bite-model/?fbclid=IwAR1hVf12wVANS8FBNpHyuzUMFoINrzyZP3SySZk5GQ3qqEbdMADh1mtvj1U</span></a></p>
Anna<p>Don’t let me ignore this. I have to be away from <a href="https://aus.social/tags/abuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>abuse</span></a> by NYE 2023. I can’t give up again.<br><a href="https://aus.social/tags/CoerciveControl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CoerciveControl</span></a></p><p>Time will fly.</p>